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Hi guys, thanks for reading. I'm 16 yrs old, and a junior in HS, my bf is 18 and freshmen in college, we've known eachother for about 3 years and have been dating for 10months, I know I'm young but no need to verify me that :) anyways, we're rattling close and I love him and I have been, I'm not just a dumb teen that loves every guy, I actually rattling love him and I know he loves me too, he desired me to lose my virginity to him, and candidly I poverty to, and I know I love him and he's "the one" drive I don't/never see that way with anyone else, but digit thing that bothers me is that he's has sex w/ his time gf's before.. it bothers me and I know it's HIS time but lettered that he's done it with another girl, and another woman has pleasured him in a way that I didn't/couldn't, hurts me. I poverty to be his first but yeah.. I don't conceive it's fair that he will be my first for EVERYTHING (I've never been fingered/ate out, etc) but I won't be for his.. so I see kinda hurt about, I hope you guys understand and compassionate it's long! thanks so much ** I told him and he said that I'll be the first woman that he ever loved that much and it'll be assorted when we do it drive he actually rattling loves me. but still...

That would be rape.

Don't rush into anything. Wait a year. He's feat into college and he's feat to change A LOT. Trust me. If he loves you, he won't pressure you into anything, and he won't stop it above your head about his past. Personally, I think you have a right to know about his time too, especially if you poverty to be that hint with him. I'm in the same position as you are, but my swain and I are in college, have been dating over a year, and he knows that he's not getting any until he puts a ring on it, and he's completely ok with it. In fact, he doesn't poverty me to make the same mistake that he has. Because that's what he considered it. We both poverty to unite each another one day, but life happens, and there are no guarantees, so both of us decided to wait until we're ready. I'm not saying that that entireness for everyone, I'm just saying that there is a lot of ontogeny between high school and college, and he's feat to be a completely assorted person by thanksgiving... I can tell you that for sure. Good luck :)

I undergo what you mean, but gratify honey, don't do this. I undergo you rattling love him, and if he loves you backwards same he says he does, he'll still be there in a few years. Sixteen is meet too teen to smash your life. You've never done anything. THERE'S STILL HOPE FOR YOU!!! It seems same there aren't some teenage girls out there that are virgins. Please, please, please, stay a virgin. At least for now. :) ***I meet thought of something, if he's exclusive ever loved you that effectuation he didn't love her and he had stimulate meet to have sex. Will he do that to you too?

my prototypal time was with a guy who experienced his prototypal time with digit of his old girlfriends. and it was a big issue for me, it took me ages to get over it. i change the same way as you did, i change hurt and a little bit provoked (but thats because we had a long history). he told me the same thing your boyfriend has told you, that it will be assorted because he loves me and he never loved her. it took a while, but i did get over it and i never give it a though anymore (we are still together). intellection back, although i was primed to have sex i wish i had waited a bit longer until i had accepted the fact that he had been with added girl.

Wait, consortium me. You'll thank yourself in 10 years.