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One of my very best friends of 12 years has been a expressed druggie for the past 7 years. I never had a family, and he's ever been like a brother to me. I love him like family. He has overdosed twice and has been to rehab innumerous times. I'm terrified of him dying, since he is the nicest and most helpful person I hit ever known. It will be the modify of me when he dies. What can I do to help him? He goes to church every week. I hit a newborn son, so I would never do drugs. I don't know a 'Ben'........... He's my son's godfather and occasionally comes on Yahoo! Answers.

Let them know that you don't approve of thier usage and you'll have nothing to do with it. Don't do them favors, conceal things for them, buy things for them, anything same that. Just verify them you won't hang with drugwads.

i think you need to just stand by his side! go to church and when you go verify him dont move doin drugs because he is encourage him to stop be the rite one and just pray for himm hopefuly everything goes substantially god bless you

It seems he can't be helped. I propose you make the selection whether or not you poverty to remain his someone to his presently yet unfortunate death. With a lowercase luck, he might get whatever kind of "epiphany" and stop. But because he's been in and out of rehab so such he's statistically "unhelpable". He's the only person that can make the selection to quit. And he has to do it for himself.

Are you talking about ben?! Just a little taste of object on him..hes gay.

Beg him to stop. Tell him sad stories about people who do drugs and die. Beg him to not intend himself killed. Plead. Cry. Tell him what you just told us.

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You need to tell him that you fuck him & that he needs long term rehab & needs to be in therapy & to see that there is something he needs to see most himself that is large than the drugs...like your friendship. Tell him you will go to a 12 step group with him; go to therapy or alter him to a rehab...he has to do one otherwise you can't be friends with him anymore dirt he straightens himself out. You have a newborn son now & can't have an irresponsible mortal with him. To help your friend you staleness set limits with him. Try going to Alanon for yourself so you won't keep enabling him. Good luck

BE THERE FOR HIM WHEN HE NEEDS U AND DON'T GIVE UP TRYING TO HELP HIM. NEVER STOP TRYING.

help him Also if you ingest Alcohol thats a take and so Is Tobbaco just to Make sure you dont ingest alcohol at all drive if you do than you are A F#cking hypocrit idiots, also some drugs like weed and shrooms arent bad, i hit cursive essays on how its not, i also hit many links and so on to sites that explain the truth...but yeah Okay UM still be his freind dont get participating with whatever he is with, hopefully its not Meth, meth is the poorest or Heroin, okay Best of luck to you and your freind

I'm compassionate to hear that man. Being an addict myself I wager the hurt I drive in my parents and friends, and I totally understand and hate it but for some reason don't stop, hence the addict labeling. My best advice is to not revilement yourself off from him, DO NOT quit doing him favors, or helping him out, or meet whatever you guys do in your relationship. While not knowing your relationship, you do that and you've already forfeited him. Chances are that, while deep down he loves and cares for you, if you yield him he won't provide digit shits less because he has his drugs, and existence an addict effectuation choosing the substances that crapper support us carelessness from reality over making amends with a friend/family member finished sobriety. So, sort one, don't revilement yourself off from him. Secondly, if you haven't already, let him know that you fuck him like a brother and hit a couple of beers to soften up and cry your grappling off to him, pleading with him, if that's how you feel. However, don't continue doing this or in some other way informing him "I want you to stop" and begging/trying to make him promise to quit. That will meet infuriate and drive him boost from you in the end. Once is sufficiency to let the feelings out, and if it's known that you disapprove of him doing what he's doing to himself but still fuck him, that's perfect. Thirdly, if he's had digit OD's and innumerous rehab visits, death may be his only epiphany. That's absolutely heart-breaking and horrible to say, but if ending yourself while you're still alive with the drug that you fuck twice isn't sufficiency to get him to stop, chances are you will hit little influence over him getting clean. Now this IS NOT that he doesn't fuck you man, I don't know you guys but KNOW he loves and cares for you, but addiction and drugs are a nasty, nasty, vile disease that should hit never been introduced to the human world. Just hit the good nowadays with him, and hopefully for his sake he will hit the burn discover point in which he meet says "I'm finished with this shit, doesn't provide me that high" anymore. I typed alot, but lowermost line is it has to be HIS choice, nobody crapper push him into it, NOBODY, that meet makes digit recluse boost from loved ones. To support him is to be there with him, fuck him like you have, allow him as drug-free as he crapper be on outings and social events. More power to you brother for sticking by him. Don't enable him, but don't tell him drugs or me, because his mind is and has been changed to think drugs crapper mask the pain of anything and therefore I need no one. That's awesome man. Continue doting him. He'll wager the light, hopefully, someday.