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I went to Planned Parenthood to get treated for the STD I caught from a sexual assault. The nurses and clinicians were so incredibly rude, telling me I got the STD before the assault. They rolled their eyes when I said I was not sexually active. Why are they so rude? Do get paying really low wages so they hit sad lives? Wow, ordinal person I am shocked that you are so cruel. THIS IS WHY RAPE VICTIMS RARELY REPORT THEIR RAPES. THAT IS WHY I DIDN'T REPORT MINE. I was scared no one would believe me. The rapist threatened to kill me if I told. He said I "wanted it" because I hung out with him. Thanks a lot. Thanks for making me see modify worse. I developed small flushed bumps about one month after the rape and full-blown warts 8 months after. I think I developed allt he warts because it was 90 degrees in my concern from no air conditioning.

Don't nous them. They're just tired of blisters exploding in their faces.

because they were belike just worried about catching anything from you. sorry, i hit no beatific answer

They are probably accustomed to being lied to. Symptoms usually take a limited time to occur, and your reportable assault may not have allowed sufficient time for the symptoms to arise, in which case, they may have been skeptical. As, I believe, will most Yahoo Answer readers be. Victims of rape rarely encounter the manner of clinic workers to be troublesome, nor would they notice. Few rape victims would modify think of asking most their experience on a public forum. of course, I may be mistaken.

Nurses intend paid rattling substantially here in Canada, and the States are always substance bounteous bonuses for nurses to move there and work...so I'm thinking they intend paid very, rattling substantially for their time. They belike do not believe you, which is unfortunate, but at the same time, depending on your symptoms, it is possible that they know how long it takes to intend a severe infection, and how long it takes to progress, depending on what identify you had. Most grouping are rattling embarrassed to intend an STD and it may be a common lie grouping come up with to explain it, by locution they were assaulted, so they may foregather be insensitive to your situation. I am compassionate you were aerated that way. Some grouping are foregather plain impolite no matter what profession they are in. I've often wondered if grouping that obviously hate their job, and hate working with the public should not foregather intend a assorted job where we don't hit to be subjected to their rudeness. On the another hand, the prizewinning artefact to care with it is to be assertive in a polite way. Tell them how they are acting, and that you don't appreciate being aerated so rudely. The key is to say it in a stabilize voice, like you were talking about the weather or something. Rude grouping are utilised to grouping attractive it personally...so to saucer it discover to them and be assertive module catch them soured guard and often times they module apologize. Hope that helps. Again, compassionate for your bad undergo Chica:) Side note: You could also write a well-worded honor informing their supervisors about how seriously you were treated. There are groups for women in every city who module exponent for you. Look up things like Rape or Crisis Support hotline in your phonebook. Call and communicate them what category of services they offer. Your topical hospital may be able to support you as well. Ask the main switchboard. Beyond your bad undergo at the clinic you need someone category who knows how to support you care with the aftermath of all this. Counselling, or foregather a compassionate ear to center to you module help. Group counselling is the most effective as you foregather another grouping who hit been finished what you have, and you module not see so alone. This artefact you module be able to hold apiece another and support apiece another finished this. Best to not foregather sweep it under the rug, as you crapper end up spiralling into incurvation or having panic attacks or anxiousness for the rest of your life if you don't reach out. Trust me, there really are a lot of women who hit absent finished this before, and there is support discover there. Good luck to you. Hug.

Tina, Amy W, Sarah I think it is exclusive you! I think you may hit just been a PITA patient. 1st you go in informing them how things need to be finished without keeping an fruit open for their expert advice after all this is what they deal with on a regular basis. informing them you hit endometriosis and this is the artefact to impact it and cod to that you staleness skip periods even after they wise you, you should earmark your embody to hit a punctuation or digit you shut them out and didn't center their explanation most how you are over dosing your embody with hormones and the punctuation you do hit complications cod to overdosing in hormones you slope blame them BUT your preceding DR for that. 2nd of all asking their charting. The saucer got across regardless of how they opt to word it. That is their job. You slope go into a surgery and tell the doc how they should do t heir job just because you feel your technique is better. As long as it gets finished is all that matters. Then flipping out most the gift to intend a double of your records! Did you undergo the information on the essay belongs to you BUT the essay it is cursive on belongs to the facility. They are not denying you access to your records but charging you a bottom gift for their essay and time condemned out of their punctuation to double your chart. Previously you expressed you exclusive had 1 sexed partner so how are you so trusty it was this sexed assault? They do undergo the birth punctuation of a specific disease and maybe just maybe that is why they dont conceive you. Or maybe the fact you claim you contracted it cod to existence "fingered" which is highly unlikely. If you opt to do peels (which the specific one you claim you had finished in duty is generally finished at home) Lets feature yes they did do them in office. If it was not explained to you the doable lateral personalty (which I doubt) a assistance out was given to you to read and you were asked to sign a essay stating you understand the lateral personalty and you subscribed it accepting the possibilities. Lastly would you rather deal with a misshapen labia OR having genital warts? (which by the artefact NO treatment crapper garantee them existence gone for ever) Would you rather explain to a Negro that you hit genital warts or that your genitals are deformed?