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I'm a man, 27 so I was embarassed to say the least to cry my eyes out, but I did. I literally broke down, fell apart, over something as insignificant to being stressed our and having breathing problems. I apologized to one of the nurses but she modify codly said "Chill out." They weren't very likable towards that, and I tried to pull myself together for the rest of the night, with not such progress because most of the staff kept telling me how I needed to seek some therapy or professional help. That haw be true,but the communication that I really got from all of that was, crying, especially from adults, is a no no, and especially from men. Also when what you're crying most is nothing, it's just seen as..ridiculous. Is that how it is? I was under the impression that if we're to fortuity downbound anywhere, it would either be in the court shack if we're blameable of something, or the hospital! I mean...out of all the places that it should be alright to lose it in...why shouldn't the ER be one of them?

I conceive what you experienced may hit just been whatever desensitized ER nurses. They've seen an awful lot of terrible and sad things in their careers, so they belike weren't as sympathetic as you had hoped for. Maybe they were intellection that you were belike just "taking up" an exam shack for something they thoughtful to be non-traumatic - or "no big deal" in their eyes. I conceive if you were in a assorted setting, like a kinsfolk doctor's office, you would hit gotten a much assorted reception. You're not undignified at all. We every go through stress, sometimes seemingly unbearable, and you can't support the way your mind and body reacts! Take care

Yes, it is okay. People should actually scream more instead of holding their feelings in. I am a nurse and I feel strongly that a person's feelings matter. Shame on the ER and hospital for making you feel defensive for crying. As I have told whatever of my co-workers the patient does not feel good or are displeased and we impact here because of that!

To answer your main question, YES, it's okay! That woman who said "chill out" was a real B****. When you see like crying you have to permit out. You did nothing wrong. I wish you and those you fuck all the best. :)

If anyone looks downbound on you because you were so heavy that you cried..they are a butt-head! I Give you "BIG HUG" and if you requirement to talk you can e-mail me anytime, OK... arizons2004@yahoo.com