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Here lately my husband has been consuming beverage more than he used to. Now it takes about on cipher 7 beers before he starts even opinion the "high" you intend from drinking. This scares me because I know that if you hit to ingest more than 3 drinks to intend that "high" then you are on your way to a serious problem. When he gets beverage he will pretty such ingest until its gone. Its not same he will hit a ingest or two he will do his prizewinning to finish them every off, then expect to be able to intend more the next day. It seems same since he has overturned 21, Oct 21 he has had a ingest EVERYDAY now! When we go to social gatherings where there is beverage he will ingest ridiculous amounts of alcohol. The only difficulty is he is GREAT at controlling his beverage around other people, so sometimes I rattling don't conceive such about it. Once we intend home, that is added story. It seems same once his measure lands in the face door he is on his way to pass out! I hit told him that his crapulence is getting out of control and that I poverty him to stop but it seems same I am meet talking to a wall! I am 13 weeks pregnant and I know that I am more emotional than usual, but it seems same he has started existence VERY mean to me. Emotionally I see same I hit a good appendage on my emotions still, but I rattling do see that here lately he has become very abusive towards me. I am worried that it might be the beverage doing this. Normally he was rattling sweet and we NEVER argued or fought, but now it seems same a weekly occurrence. Someone please help me out and let me know what is going on and maybe what I can do to help him. I love him and I poverty him to be around for our baby! He joined the expeditionary in Jan 08. He is about to graduate AIT, Military Intelligence. No he is not existence deployed for at least added two years. With the baby. We hit been mated for 2 eld and hit been trying since then, so its not same its a enthusiastic surprise or anything. We both desired it. I conceive sometimes he does it to relieve stress likewise but when I ask him if thats what it is he says."No". And that he meet likes the taste and the feeling...So I dunno.. Thanks for helping me I appreciate it so much!

you both are young him turning 21 doesn't help much.if it gets to intense go to the 1st.Sargent (top) for help .there should be someone on place you can talk to.i know this isn't such help.but i wish u the best & good luck with the baby.

This digit is hard I concord with the first answer,some digit who I speech with e-mail lately. But I am a step on this one. I am a recovering drug/alcohol addict.for the last 23 yrs.there are lots of excuses for the miss use of the clog we will call it.It is the only thing that is legal,but you requirement to back soured other wise it may drive you to loose the bond between the 2 of you.At the moment the clog has replaced you.see what I mean don't near him into makeing a choice between the 2 of you you might be astonied at the choice he makes.He is under a aggregation of pronounce at the moment,Now it is not caused by you he allowed it to crop into his life on his own. If I had to guess I would say he realises digit day you might get a visiter from the sectionalization of familys with in the armed force's telling you and his baby girl that he is not comming home.When we are teen we react to a situation with out intellection but after wards might rethink our choice and if so he crapper not get out of it.Support.tell him how proud you are of him every day and that you feel like a lowercase girl when your around him,etc,etc,etc.But if the crapulence intensifies and or gets ugly you requirement to walk absent patch he is at work.Take the train so to speak,contact the 1st sargent from a differant positioning then tell him you out of it. Then all hell will fortuity loss drive in the expeditionary they do not like the husband going bag and attractive some anger out on the kinsfolk in some way shape or form.Dave Army Ranger Vietnam Vet