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i've ever been a huffy person, but lately i'm worried that i may be too sensitive. the littlest things get to me, and i constantly fear angering grouping or being judged. like the another day i was in the meal line, and i'd went off daydreaming, and didn't actualise the distinction had moved, until thed lady behind me told me to move up. i change rattling horrible and embarassed and couldn't stop thinking most it for a long time. and today my roommate was being stingy to me for no obvious reason like he ever does, and informing me most when he went to war, and i asked him to yield me alone. not in a telling way or anything like that. at the time, i change good for actually standing up for myself, but later i change rattling intense most it and apologized to him. and he meet ignored me, which made me see worse. i'm rattling hesitant of doing the tiniest things, like speaking my opinion on anything when i'm conversation to another people, or modify changing the television steer in the commonroom when another grouping are in the room. i'm ever scared that i'm being a bother. anytime anyone says anything negative to me, i rattling verify it to heart. modify when grouping feature stingy things to me online, i get upset. when i hear grouping feature extra stingy things to grouping i dont modify undergo it makes me sad. when i'm at the mall or any locate discover in public, especially if its indoors, i ever see like grouping are opened at me, and thinking intense things most me and informing their friends how ugly i am. whenever i'm by myself, i actualise how silly and indefensible my fears are, but erst i'm discover in the concern again, it all meet starts over. this is hurting any chance i could ever hit at having a connatural life. i'm 19 and i've never rattling had any friends, and i'm ever afraid of play up conversations with grouping i dont know, because i'm afraid that theyll see me as annoying or too insecure. (even though i'd admit to being very insecure) do you think i am all too sensitive? could there be something wrong with me, or is this meet a part of my personality? thank you. i'm rattling bored, so if anyone wants to talk, communication me on here, or im me. msn: dopey_muffin224@hotmail.com aim: kid poops muffin (i'm rattling sorry if i've already posted this. my questions havent been showing up.)

its meet part of your personality, existence sensitive isn't a bad thing but if you don't same existence too senisitive stand up for yourself and attain sure you don't say sorry it module help in the long run

I hit the exact same problem you do. Exactly the same. I hit overcome it in many ways, and it is down to an every time minimum for me, but same you I verify every things to heart, and verify them personally, even if the person is meet trying to help. I think most the smallest lowercase things, and permit them bother me, etc etc etc. To share a quick story. The last real event same that for me was newborn years 08. I was at the store buying food, and when I got to my notecase to clear the Mohammedan I was 20 dollars short, and had to verify half of the stuff back. I thought most it for 3 month. My best advice would be to throw yourself at things you might not same doing (socializing) Fear of speaking your mind, and being judged by people is connatural though, a lot of people who aren't huffy feel that way. Believe me, people module attitude you more if you defence up for youself, and show confidence. Acting that positive module never backfire, unless the person is a jerk off. There is null wrong with you at al, some people are more huffy that others. Whenever you hit a time same you had in the meal line. Say to yourself "it doesn't matter, its no bounteous deal, its over with." Say it to yourself over and over and over and over and over again. Thats what I do, and to my surprise, it has started to work. If you intend the opinion that people are looking at you queer patch you are socializing with them, think null of it, most of the time that opinion meet comes from minor paranoia of the situation at hand. Everone has paranoia most something. "I ever feel same people are opened at me, and informing their friends how ugly I am" I hit gotten that EXACT same opinion everday, I intend it constantly, and I hit reached the point where I feature to myself, "I don't f*cking care" When you don't care most it, its hornlike to ruffle your feathers. So no there is null wrong with you, you are meet a lowercase more huffy and self conscious than others than others thats all. Whenever you feel same you are being stared at, or are embarassed, meet feature to youself "I don't f*cking care" and think most another things that matter.